"Six Rules to Make People Like You"
1.Become genuinely interested in others
If you start becoming interested in others then people will start liking you because it shows that you care about them.
2. Smile
3. Remember Names
4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves
5. Talk in terms of the other man's interest
6. Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely
Reflection
If you start to remember other people's names then you'll be able to communicate with that person more better and may even become friends. Remembering ones name is important because if you want to see that specific person and you don't remember their name then you won't be able to call that person. You can still call them but most people feel a bit disrespected if you don't say their name.
4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves
If you become a good listener then a lot of people will like you for that. Also if you start to encourage others to talk about themselves then that will help the person boost their self esteem and will make them feel good about themselves. It also shows how you care about them as a person and you will be there to help them. It is also good to be a good listener because then the person you are talking to will know you are a good person in general.It also increases relationships with others, which makes them like you more and more.
5. Talk in terms of the other man's interest
Talking about other people's interest instead of yours all the time will make people to like you better.
Making others feel important is the greatest thing you can to do someone. People will like you better than they have because this shows you respect them. This also shows that you are a nice person and will show how meaningful they are to you. Making someone feel important isn't just the words that you say them, but the things that you do can also make people feel a little more important. For example opening a door for the person or compliment them about how they look.
Reflection
Overall the six ways can improve someone's social ability. The six ways have helped me in some way by making me a bit more social to many people around me. Also the six ways can not only help me but others who are trying to meet new people along their journey. For example if someone wants to make new friends or wants people to like them better they can use these six ways to help them.
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